What is actually happening?!
We both recently turned 60 and have been reflecting on the richness of our lives and how important our loved ones are to us.
We wanted to create a special, joy-filled weekend where we gather everyone we love — while we are still young enough to frolic by day and dance all night. Given the choice, we’d rather celebrate with you now than wait for our memorial services.
This will be a full weekend of connection, movement, beauty, music, and a little bit of mischief.
Weekend Overview
8:30am – 10:30am
Brunch
Neighbourgood Sutter Mansion
1409 Sutter Street
San Francisco, CA
11:00am - 2:30
Urban City Hike departing from Neighbourgood Sutter Mansion
(Please RSVP for brunch and/or hike by adding your name in the spreadsheet)
Saturday Morning
2:30pm – 4:00pm
Afternoon snacks (light lunch)
The Main Event :
Sexy Scarlet Soirée
Saturday Night
Location:
Broadway Studios
435 Broadway, San Francisco, CA 94133
How to get there?
There is a public parking lots adjacent to the venue. That said, we really request you to please take an Uber, Waymo, or Lyft. Please be mindful of where you park, and read all parking signs.
7:00pm – 10:00pm
Heavy appetizers + immersive entertainers
10:00pm – 2:00am
Dancing with DJ Leyl, LP Giobbi, and Ruxputin
Expect a lovingly curated lineup of performances, sensory moments, and plenty of dance floor magic. Rest up.
After Party
2:00am – 4:00am
Afterparty wind-down (optional: bring PJs)
Location:
Neighbourgood Sutter Mansion
1409 Sutter Street
San Francisco, CA
How to get there?
We will have a party bus transporting guests from Broadway Studios to the afterparty at 2:00am.
Getting home from the afterparty
Ubers and Waymos are usually always available. You may want to reserve one in advance. We will have multiple tri-fold mattresses set up for a “cozy-corner” where some of you may crash if desired.
Hotel Majestic
For those coming from out of town, a room block is being held at the Majestic hotel (a short walk from the afterparty). Please contact them directly and say you are with the Donato Party for a discounted rate.
info@thehotelmajestic.com
Where to Stay?
Address
1500 Sutter Street
San Francisco, CA 94109
(415) 441-1100
Where to Park?
• Sutter Place Garage – 1375 Sutter St, San Francisco
• Daniel Burnham Court – 1220 Post St, San Francisco
Dress Code
This is a Sexy Scarlet Soirée — think bold, sensual, celebratory, elevated red energy.
Red satin, silk, velvet, fur…
Red, scarlet, crimson, deep wine, garnet, —
anything goes!
Have fun with it. This is not the night for beige.
Dress code inspiration is available below, along with curated Pinterest boards to help you plan your look.
Inspiration for her
Inspiration for him
FAQ
Frequently (but not yet asked) Questions
No gifts expected. Your presence is the present.
1.
Is there a gift registry?
No — this is a dynamic, high-energy soirée with heavy appetizers and curated entertainment.
2.
Is this a formal seated dinner?
If your invitation included one, absolutely. If unsure, please check directly.
3.
Can I bring a plus one?
Yes. If you have specific needs, please reach out in advance.
Will there be all dietary restriction options?
4.
Private Inquiries
For private questions, accessibility needs, or special requests, please contact our event producing team:
K & C
curious@sexyscarletsoiree.com